This statement focuses on the host’s experiences and actions without implying any wrongdoing by the other parties:
Being a host is a fulfilling experience, allowing you to bring joy and nurture connections within the community. However, as with any role, it comes with its own set of challenges. I’ll keep this short, focusing on the key points, while handling the situation with complete transparency. In the first year of the group, a lady from a distant country, with whom I had minimal interaction, sent a message to my co-host, claiming that I had told others I was interested in her, although she was not interested in me. I found this surprising and believed it was likely a misunderstanding or possibly the result of external influences. We extended an invitation for a conversation over coffee with the group leaders to address the situation, but she chose not to engage further.
More recently, another situation occurred involving a lady who is no longer part of the group, who had persistently sought my attention, seemingly encouraged by others, though I am unsure of their motivations. We entered into a consensual, no-strings-attached relationship, and from the very beginning, I was clear and honest about my intentions, explaining that I was not seeking anything serious, as I am a separated man. She acknowledged and understood this, even referring to the arrangement as “Rainbow or colourful friends.” However, after only a few encounters, I noticed that her expectations seemed to be shifting beyond what we had originally agreed upon. To prevent any potential misunderstandings or complications, I decided it was best to end the relationship.
Unfortunately, since then, there has been a noticeable change in the atmosphere, with some rumours circulating, though it’s unclear where they stem from. It seems these issues may be related to feelings of disappointment following the end of the relationship. I am hopeful that in time, the situation will calm down and things will return to normal. My focus remains on resolution and on contributing to the wonderful group of people over 50 that has come together, and I am optimistic that things will resolve themselves and that similar situations can be avoided in the future.
In closing, I sincerely hope for a peaceful and positive resolution for everyone involved. I genuinely wish the very best for all parties as we move forward. This statement was made only to offer clarification, and if the second lady feels it is unnecessary, I am more than happy to remove it. Should she wish to do so, she is welcome to send a respectful and considerate email to 
, which may be reviewed by a solicitor if necessary. My aim is to provide an open and understanding channel for communication, and I am hopeful that, with goodwill, we can all reach a harmonious outcome. My intentions have always been genuine, and I look forward to continuing to serve this wonderful community in the spirit of unity and respect.